Honest feedback is priceless. It's also hard to get.

If you struggle to get second dates (or any dates at all!) and don't know why, it's time for an outside perspective.

We don't recommend asking friends.  unless you're dying to hear "you're such a nice guy/girl, just be yourself!" for the thousandth time. 

So, where to go for honest, actionable feedback, sans sugar-coating?

A Mock Date Can Help you uncover your dating blindspots so you can find love

Mock date sessions start with a 50-minute virtual "date." Showcase your best dating self to your coach, who will play the part of your blind date.  Talk, flirt, practice asking for a second date -- just about everything you would do on a usual date.

Afterward, spend another 50-minutes debriefing the date in private, reviewing your dating strengths and weaknesses.  Your coach will offer honest feedback using our 16-point dating skill rubric, including an assessment of your:

  • Body language

  • Conversation skills

  • Flirtation

  • Appearance

  • Intimacy-building skills

Once you have a clearer picture of what you need to work on, you'll have the option to continue working with your coach, who can provide skill-building exercises and role-plays to further support your dating success.

That means you’ll gain dating experience, get a reality-based assessment of your dating strengths and growing edges, and laser-focused coaching.  

Our mock date service is a specialty add-on service available to those engaged in dating coaching or dating therapy. Please apply for a 30-minute consultation to discuss your dating goals and be matched with your best-fit coach.